Is it ok to be possessive about your partner?

naidu · Mayor's Aide Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 51

I personally feel that relationships are based on love, trust, respect. And possessiveness can hamper a relationship and even leads to break-ups.

Slick4788 · Mayor's Aide Joined: 05 Dec 2005 Posts: 50

badshow_99 · Mayor's Aide Joined: 02 Dec 2005 Posts: 50

Depends upon what kind of person your partner is. If you are over posessive, some may not like it, while others crave for tht

miked · Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2005 9:29 pm Post subject:

That is one of the worst things you can do in relationship. Women that i know can't stand it when a guy acts like that. The best way to be with women are to be cool and calm. Razz

Ritterz · Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 5:54 am Post subject:

Woman need to cool down so do men, that way we'kk all get along, lol.

purebrownfusion · Mayor's Aide Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 50

i am most likely the most jelous bastard out there.
i hate when my gf talks to her guy friends i wanna slap a bitch when he comes donw to that
i know im a hypocrite but wth

Hani · Congressional Page Joined: 09 Dec 2005 Posts: 35

I don?t believe in being possessive if u love some one set them free because love doesn?t have any rules or boundaries, If they come back to u there are worth ur love.

lavanay · Congressional Page Joined: 20 Jun 2006 Posts: 16

I believe it's okay to be possessive about your partner as it means that you care and you don?t want to share or lose your partner. Possessiveness is a natural feeling that comes out of love. A child tries all different things just to make sure that his mother is playing with him or looking at him all the time.

I have seen many people who are possessive about their new car, bike or even a pen!

However, one should not be so possessive that you make other person feel like he/she is in some prison.

Mrs Wolfie · Mayor's Aide Joined: 16 Jun 2006 Posts: 117

Not down with possesive folks. If you are, then there is some sort of insecurity going on. Purebrown, what do you have to worry about? Has your gf given you reason for concern? If so, then perhaps she is not the one. I would no look askance at another man because my husband is my soul. But I certainly don't collar him and would snap if he tried to do so to me!

prue187 · Congressional Page Joined: 03 Dec 2006 Posts: 23

My husband is not that possessive. I believe that sometimes you force your partner to be that way. For example women who are married should dress properly. Not dressing like a "whore" or clothes that says " I'm available". But if this is not the case and there's no reason to be insecure about, they need to get a life. Cool

aima123 · Posted: Wed Dec 06, 2006 6:53 pm Post subject:

I think it's ok to be possessive as long as you know it's limits and boundaries. Well when you love your partner truly you should know how to protect him/her, but everything should be in a right place and way.

classyred · Mayor's Aide Joined: 14 Dec 2006 Posts: 68

I believe that trust should be the foundation of any good relationship I have been with my husband and soul mate a total of 20 years (this includes are many years of dating) and we trust each other totally, for us the key is total honesty and trust with out it we both believe you have nothing to build on.

aima123 · Posted: Fri Dec 22, 2006 8:15 pm Post subject: Re: REPLY